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Hi!I am Neelam,a person who is positive about every aspect of life.I like to read and write inspirational poems, Quotes, stories etc. and i want to share my thoughts with others as well because i believe motivation helps us in many different ways like it helps you get started,it helps you keep moving,it helps you do more than others, and it makes the journey fun.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Thinking "Out Of The Box"


Many hundreds of years ago in a small Italian town, a merchant had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to the moneylender. The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the merchant's beautiful daughter so he proposed a bargain. He said he would forgo the merchant's debt if he could marry the daughter. Both the merchant and his daughter were horrified by the proposal.

The moneylender told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty bag. The girl would then have to pick one pebble from the bag. If she picked the black pebble, she would become the moneylender's wife and her father's debt would be forgiven. If she picked the white pebble, she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven. But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.

They were standing on a pebble-strewn path in the merchant's garden. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick her pebble from the bag.

What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her? Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

  1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

  2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the moneylender as a cheat.

  3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.
The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.

Read on...

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked."

Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the moneylender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an advantageous one.



MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a solution, sometimes we have to think about them in a different way.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Don't miss the Spirit's blessings...

Thought of the day

"Don't only be close to someone who makes you happy..Be close to someone who can't be happy without you.
It makes a lot of difference in LIFE................"


Dads Blessings

A young man was getting ready to graduate from college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautifully wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat disappointed, the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible, with the young man's name embossed in gold. Angry, he raised his voice to his father and said "With all your money, you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the Bible.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day. Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things.

When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search through his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. And as he did, a car key dropped from the back of the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss Spirit's blessings and answers to our prayers because they do not arrive exactly as we have expected?

How to tackle this Life!

* Life ends when you stop dreaming, hope ends when you stop believing and love ends when you stop caring.So dream hope and love...Makes Life Beautiful
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*Life is small,Live it!Love is pure,Enjoy it! Anger is injurious,Dump it!Troubles are short,Face it!Memories are sweet,Cherish it!I am the BEST,Accept it!
------------------------------------------------------X-----------------------------------------* DREAMS visit us when we are asleep -but commitment wakes us up each day and gives us every chance to make our DREAMS come true!
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*Life is a book, we all read it. Love is a blessimg, we all need it. Always be happy, walk with a smile. Remember in this world we are just for a while.
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*Dont expect anything from life,expectations hurt.When don't expect,every moment is a surprise and every surprise brings Happiness.